Blend 1 cup of cornmeal with 1 teaspoon of salt and combine this with 1 cup cold water. Stir until smooth before adding 2 cups of hot milk and cooking over low heat until the mixture thickens. Next beat 2 whole eggs until the yolks and whites are well blended. Add a little of the hot mixture to the eggs and then the eggs to the hot mixture along with 3 tablespoons of melted butter and beat until the two mixtures are thoroughly mixed. Pour into a well buttered 2-quart casserole (or into individual ovenproof dishes) and place in a 350 degree oven. Cook for about 45 minutes or until firm to the touch. Serve immediately, with butter and honey if desired.